How important is it to you to get your ex back? You may have realized that no matter what mistakes were made, your ex was an important part of your life and there was enough good worth saving. You must know if your ex feels the same. Is the relationship as important to them and do they think it is worth getting back together?
At this highly sensitive time, neither of you may honestly know if it is worth it or not. When you are hurt, it's normal to want to run away from the person that is hurting you. This will be especially true if the time up to separating was particularly difficult for either of you.
The love you once had was the foundation of your relationship. But words were said, mistakes were made that started to weaken that foundation. If you got back together, could you rebuild that foundation? Could both of you fall in love all over again? The answer is maybe. It depends on how much each of you are willing to work on your personal issues and on your relationship.
Give each other time and space, to reflect on what went wrong and begin to get on with your respective lives. This allows both of you to calm down, come to terms with what has happened and prepare both of you to begin honest communication. Listening to each others' concerns with open mind and caring heart will help the healing process and help you discuss your issues in a blame free manner. Only then can you resolve the issues that may be preventing you from getting her back (or him).
Take time to be sure you are both willing to work on your issues before contemplating giving the relationship another chance. Would you really want to get back with ex if nothing changed and the relationship stayed exactly as it was just before you broke up?
Take the time to talk and work together to understand the mistakes that were made. A willingness to resolve the issues surrounding the break up shows you sincerely want to overcome the past and move on with your lives together. Only then can you win love back. On the other hand, if the problems are so deep or one of you isn't willing to change or work on your issues, then getting back together is not really an option, if you want a happy life.
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